Tuesday, October 27, 2009

Challenges and Blessings

This is not my typical blog post.

As a single parent of 4 awesome kids I have the challenge being mom and dad, good guy and bad guy, cheering section, shoulder to cry on etc.

It is hard to be all things for all people. Each of my children is unique, they each have their own strengths and weaknesses. I love them all equally for the person they are and for the joy they bring into my life.

It breaks my heart to watch my children struggle. Right now I have a child that is facing some challenges with school and with acceptance. He wants attention and to be accepted so bad that he will do almost anything.

As a parent what I am I to do? Do I go overboard in showing him how much I love him? Do I take the hard line approach and tell him shape up or face the music? I worry about him, this is such a crucial time in his life and development I don't want to make the wrong choice.

Sunday, October 4, 2009

Sweet 16








My oldest daughter Mackenzie turned 16 on September 6th. I cannot possibly have a child that old.



Mackenzie is such a wonderful daughter. She and I share a special relationship. She always is able to make me laugh. Mackenzie is a very talented artist, and this year she is taking art classes to further improve her skills.



Mackenzie is blossoming this year, she has grown into a beautiful, confident and talented young woman. She always has a smile on her face and people gravitate towards her.



She is playing on the high school soccer team this year after taking a couple of years off. She has really enjoyed playing again. She is determined to come back even better next year for her senior year.



I love you Mackenzie, I hope you will continue to make good choices and be a good example as you prepare yourself for your bright future.



Love always... Daddy